If you've been following this blog for a while, you probably know that we've been trying to conceive for a long time. In fact, October will mark four years since we began actively trying to build our family. We had one small break in that time where we were not trying (while I was in massage therapy school).
It became apparent after a full year post-break that things weren't really happening. According to my charts, I was ovulating regularly and had a normal LP. I scheduled an appointment with my OB/GYN to talk about infertility testing. She ran some bloodwork, which came back normal, and then sent me to have an HSG (basically an x-ray of your uterus and fallopian tubes, to check for blockages and other abnormalities). That was clear, too. Tyler got sent for a semen analysis at the same time, and that's where we ran into some problems. His count, motility, and morphology were all low, so he was referred to a urologist who specializes in infertility.
At his appointment, Tyler learned that he had bilateral varicoceles, which are varicose veins leading away from the testicles which cause them to overheat and therefore produce sub-par sperm. The doctor recommended microsurgery to repair the veins, so Tyler had surgery on Valentine's Day, 2011. After a week off from work, he was back to normal. We had several follow-up semen analyses over the next nine months to check if the surgery helped sperm production, but the news was less than stellar. While there was some improvement, we would likely be unable to conceive without the help of IVF and ICSI (a procedure where sperm are individually implanted within eggs to assist fertilization).
At this point, in November of 2011, we decided to take some time to think. I had discussed the possibility of adoption with Tyler in the past, but he was unsure if that was something he would be willing to look into. As we were on the road back to our hometown for Thanksgiving, I asked Tyler to consider adoption again. I had begun to feel like the Lord was leading me down that path, but I wanted us both to think and pray about it before we had another discussion. God had other plans, though, and as soon as we finished our initial discussion, we both began to feel an immense sense of peace and calm. We decided then that we would be using adoption to expand our family, and told Tyler's parents that weekend.
Ever since that moment in the car, we have felt God's presence in our research and decisions regarding our adoption journey. Our families and friends have been incredibly supportive and are so excited for us to become parents. We attended an informational session at an adoption agency in February, and we decided shortly thereafter that we will be moving forward with them.
Now we are in the process of saving the money we will need to complete our application, education seminars, and homestudy. We hope to submit our application materials at the beginning of 2013 and to complete our homestudy around the time that I graduate with my master's in the spring.
Stay tuned for more!!